Your Alternative to Conflict:
Resolve Disputes with Clarity and Cooperation

We efficiently guide you to peaceful resolutions, preserving valuable relationships and avoiding costly legal battles. We create structured, neutral spaces to enable fair and lasting solutions.

About

Hi, my name is Mariya Foley, and I am a professional negotiator, trained mediator and dialogue facilitator.After earning a Bachelor's degree in Education, a Bachelor's degree in Finance, and a Master's Degree in Accountancy I spent much of my career negotiating with clients, vendors, and stakeholders across global corporations. Years of navigating high-stakes negotiations and complex contracts revealed a fundamental truth: most conflicts don't persist due to an unwillingness to resolve but because people lack the structure and support needed for productive dialogue. I created Aspire Alternatives to change that.Businesses lose valuable partnerships daily, families fracture over disputes, and communities grow more divided because people feel unheard and unseen. But what if we focused on fostering understanding instead of escalating conflict? What if the skills used in high-level negotiations became accessible to everyday people and small businesses? That belief is at the core of our mission: to make effective conflict resolution inclusive, empowering, and available to all.At Aspire Alternatives, we work with small businesses and soloprenuors struggling with contracts, business partners at a crossroads, and individuals navigating personal disputes. Through structured dialogue, we help clients clarify their interests, uncover workable solutions, and, most importantly, make informed, strategic decisions. Our goal is not only to resolve disputes but also to empower our clients, helping them feel in control and confident in their choices.As an experienced negotiator, IMI-trained mediator, and dialogue circle facilitator fluent in English, Ukrainian, and Russian, I offer Zoom and in-person services to meet my clients' diverse needs.Book a free 15 - minute consultation to see if the services are right for you.

Services


Mediation

Mediation is a well-developed part of the judicial process governed by a complex body of statutes, civil procedure codes, local court rules, and standard law rules of contract.


Negotiations

Contract negotiation is a process of discussing, revising, and finalizing the terms of an agreement between two or more parties to ensure mutual understanding and fairness.


Dialog Circles

A dialogue circle is a structured, facilitated conversation that promotes open, respectful communication among participants.

Mediation

Mediation is a cost-effective, confidential, and empowering way to resolve disputes. A mutually selected impartial and neutral person, the mediator, assists parties in negotiating their differences while keeping parties in control of the outcomes. Unlike litigation, which is often expensive, time-consuming, and adversarial, mediation prioritizes solutions over conflict, fostering mutual understanding and cooperation.A neutral mediator facilitates discussions by:
- Asking questions and reframing issues to promote understanding.
- Summarising agreed-upon concepts
- Encouraging direct communication and creative problem-solving.
Depending on the dispute, discussions may focus on bargaining and compromise, collaborative problem-solving, or improving long-term communication in ongoing relationships. By asking questions, the mediator explores options for the parties to determine the best approach to resolution.


Key Benefits of Mediation:

  • Reduces conflict and fosters constructive emotional expression through solution-focused dialogue.

  • Encourages creative, flexible solutions beyond rigid legal frameworks.

  • Prevents a "winner vs. loser" outcome, fostering mutual agreement

  • Reduces risk and uncertainty, putting parties in control of the decisions, not a judge.

  • Saves time and money compared to the litigation process.

  • Confidential and private, unlike public courtroom proceedings.

  • Develops problem-solving skills for future conflicts.


Principles of Mediation:

  • Independence - The mediator must disclose to the parties any conditions or circumstances that may create a conflict of interest or affect independence.

  • Impartiality - The mediator must treat parties equally to ensure a fair process. However, the mediator has no duty to protect the interests of the parties, provide them with any legal advice or information about their legal rights, or offer advice about mental health issues, crisis prevention, social services, substance abuse or rehabilitation, etc.

  • Confidentiality - All communications, negotiations, and discussions during the process are protected from disclosure. They cannot be used as evidence in court or revealed to outside parties without all parties' consent. Sessions held over the Internet or telephone shall not be recorded.

  • Voluntary Process - All parties must agree to participate, have an equal say in the resolution without any coercion or legal obligation to settle, and can stop or withdraw from the process.

  • No Binding Outcome - Mediation does not result in a binding outcome unless both parties agree and sign a settlement agreement. The dispute can proceed to other forms of resolution, including litigation.


Dispute areas commonly benefitting from mediation:

  • Family Law: Divorce, child custody, and other family-related disputes.

  • Business Disputes: Contract disputes, business partnerships, and workplace conflicts.

  • Employment Issues: Disputes between employers and employees, including those related to discrimination or harassment.

  • Real Estate Disputes: Landlord-tenant issues, property disputes, and construction conflicts.

  • Personal Injury: Resolving claims after accidents or injuries.

  • Contract Disputes addressing the terms or performance of contracts.

  • Criminal Cases: Some non-violent criminal cases, including juvenile offenses and misdemeanor complaints.

  • Community Disputes: Neighborly disputes, issues between community groups, and other community-related conflicts.

  • Small Claims involving rather small amounts of money.

  • Medical Malpractice: cases related to medical care.

  • Labor-Management Disputes between unions and management

  • International Disputes between countries or parties residing in different countries.

  • Interpersonal Disputes between individuals in general.

  • School or University Disputes within educational institutions.


Key Considerations When Choosing a Mediator:

  • Comfort and Trust: Both parties should feel comfortable with the mediator, who should foster a sense of trust and openness during the initial consultation that continues through mediation discussions.

  • Creativity & Problem-Solving Ability: The capacity to explore alternative solutions and facilitate mutually beneficial outcomes is essential.

  • Emotional Intelligence & Conflict Resolution Skills: A mediator must manage emotions, de-escalate tension, and foster collaboration among parties.

  • Communication Skills: A skilled mediator can actively listen, effectively summarize discussions, and help parties articulate their interests and concerns.

  • Commitment to Continuous Education: Ongoing training in mediation techniques, psychology, and conflict resolution methods indicates dedication to professional growth.

  • Legal Background vs. Professional Experience: The mediator is an independent neutral who maintains objectivity and does not provide legal advice. Their role is to facilitate discussions without bias, building on active listening, problem-solving, and negotiation skills. Practical experience or background in relevant industries (e.g., business, family dynamics, workplace conflict) provide valuable insights and thus often carry more weight.

  • Process Management & Adaptability: A good mediator structures sessions effectively and controls the discussion flow.

Contract Negotiation

Contract negotiation is the process of discussing, revising, and finalizing the terms of an agreement between two or more parties to ensure mutual understanding and fairness. The goal is to clarify expectations, minimize risks, and establish legally sound contracts that benefit all involved.More than anything, the negotiation process requires preparation and strategy. While there are a lot of elements to be evaluated by the business before any negotiations, some common aspects are: the goal of the transaction or partnership, pricing and payment terms, scope of work and deliverables, liabilities, warranties, timelines, confidentiality, and intellectual property rightsA trained professional brings expertise, clarity, objectivity, and strategic insight to contract negotiations, helping you secure the best possible terms while protecting your interests.


The reason trained professional involvement is crucial:

  • Risk Mitigation – Professionals identify hidden risks, vague clauses, and unsuitable terms that could lead to disputes or financial loss.

  • Time and Cost Savings – Skilled professionals streamline negotiations, preventing costly legal disputes or delays.

  • Emotional Detachment – Having a neutral expert negotiate on your behalf removes personal biases and emotional influences, leading to more rational decision-making.

  • Legal and Industry Knowledge – Trained negotiators are familiar with contract laws, industry-specific regulations, and best practices, ensuring your contract is compliant and enforceable.

  • Stronger Business Relationships – A well-negotiated contract promotes fairness and cooperation, reducing friction between parties and fostering long-term collaboration.

  • Better Outcomes – Experienced negotiators understand market standards, leverage, and strategies to help you achieve more favorable terms.

Whether you’re dealing with business agreements, vendor contracts, employment terms, or dispute resolutions, professional negotiation is an investment in long-term success.

Dialog Circles

A dialogue circle is a structured, facilitated conversation designed to promote open, respectful communication among participants. Rooted in restorative practices and community-building, dialogue circles create time and space for participants to share perspectives, build understanding, and address conflicts constructively.


Use of Dialogue circles

  • Conflict Resolution & Mediation – Helping individuals or groups address disputes, misunderstandings, and tensions.

  • Community & Workplace Discussions – Encouraging open conversations on diversity, equity, inclusion, and policy changes.

  • Education & Youth Engagement– Fostering social-emotional learning, relationship-building, and conflict prevention in schools.

  • Family & Group Decision-Making – Navigating sensitive topics such as elder care, parenting agreements, or estate planning.

  • Restorative Justice – Providing a space for offenders and victims to communicate, acknowledge harm, and work toward healing.


Key Benefits of Dialogue Circles:

  • Encourages Active Listening – Participants feel heard and respected, fostering mutual understanding.

  • Promotes Emotional Expression – Safe space for sharing thoughts, feelings, and concerns.

  • Strengthens Relationships – Builds trust, connection, and cooperation among participants.

  • Defuses Tension & Reduces Conflict – Helps prevent misunderstandings from escalating.

  • Encourages Collaborative Problem-Solving – Supports constructive dialogue rather than adversarial debate.

  • Creates Inclusive Decision-Making – Ensures all voices are considered in policy-making or group agreements.

  • Supports Healing & Accountability – Particularly in restorative justice and reconciliation efforts.

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